She apologizes for her behavior later and tells me that she was not mad or disappointed or whatever at me. I tell her that I know and it did not affect me afterwards. She does however, feel like she is "vibing" off my moods and tells me as much, whatever that means.
She may be frustrated that she can't get the reaction she wants from you. A lot of women use their tantrums or tears as a manipulation tool to invoke certain responses from the man.
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Always. I am trying to find more social GAL activities. It's a little difficult in which I lift after work then find something fun to do in a small town. Just another challenge to overcome, I guess.
I understand that small towns don't offer much "fun stuff", if any. It's good if you can find fun things, but just getting out of the house helps keep you distant from her drama. Is there a library that stays open later? You could do your reading, or maybe even your DB posting while there. What about some type of volunteer service to help others? Are there any late hour variety stores open? You can always go and just look around.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
