If/when the time comes, I'm very afraid I won't be able to just sit there and let her say things like, "we tried everything to make it work" without responding with, "Are you ____ kidding me?!" At that point, all hope is probably lost anyway, so maybe me venting all of my frustrations on her won't matter and I should just do it.
M: 34 W:34 D:7 D:6 S:3
M: 9.5 years T: 12
OM found & BD (by me): 9/19/18 IHS begins W informs me she's moving out: 11/28/18 W files: 12/21/18 D Final: 2/25/19