Hey J....doing well, every day gets a little easier. Been dating for about 5 months now. Been on roughly 9 dates or so but nothing that has materialized to anything significant. XW is still mostly cold than hot, she has BF now and they have been together for probably 5 or 6 months. I have still not met him nor has he shown his face around my kids events so I am not sure what to make of it. All in all life is going really good, my girls are happy, I am still working out, playing basketball and still deep into personal development. It really sucked early on but it has been the most transformational period of my life. I am a much better man today for it.

So no response from your W on the letter you gave her?


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018