What I can't figure out is why if I'm supposed to be trying to be the one to get rid of HER, why does it bother me when she shows continued, consistent, tangible evidence that she got rid of me long ago?
It bothers you because you are still attached. You want what you can't have.
You are pursing a woman that does not want to be with you. This is not attractive to woman.
Detach.
I always think of Clint Eastwood characters. They are Alpha males. How does he behave? Why do the women desire him. Does he chase after women?
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
