Hi Adam,

You have found a great place for support. Keep posting.

Read as much as you can. Make as many positive changes as you can.

This process is about your personal growth.

Think about this:

How hard is it for you to change your habits? How hard do you think it is to change someone else's behavior?


Change the way you interact with someone forces a change in the relationship.


Never chase a cat. Your wife is a cat. Let the cat come to you. Love her by setting her free. Work on yourself.



"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712