Steve, I was really talking about HER 180s, not mine. I'm doing mine for me, but what I meant was that since we don't live together any more, it is harder for me to see any changes in HER behavior. The 180s I will hear about are things like maybe she's going to the gym, or fastidiously cleaning the house, but they won't show any desire to R by themselves.
Okay, I understand. You want to see what 180s she is doing so you'll know if she wants to R.
Here is your answer, when she wants to R YOU WILL KNOW. She will make sure of it. there will be no doubt about it. So you don't have to witness 180 to know that.
Originally Posted by Jim1234
I guess really, I am trying to plan out and control the reconciliation, and I really just need to let go; if it happens, it happens, and I'll deal with it then.
THIS^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
