I guess there are essentially two things that might work in my favor. 1 being the new job is going to give her way less time with the kids (1 hr commute one way), so she's going to be missing out on getting them ready for school, dropping them off at school, picking them up from school and more than likely feeding/having supper with them.
Don't be so sure about that my friend. I am seeing this girl who admitted she likes not having her kids for a week.
I don't know, man. Our kids are her LIFE. For as bad of a W she's been to me, she's been on the opposite end of the spectrum as a mother. I hate to even say this, but almost to a fault maybe? She would invest SO much time into the kids that our relationship was put on the back burner. We didn't devote anytime for ourselves because it was always about the kids. She hasn't really changed as a mother over these last 2 months either. She is still an amazing mother to them (aside from trying to destroy their family as they know it!) But she doesn't see it that way, "They will be just fine if we D."
M: 34 W:34 D:7 D:6 S:3
M: 9.5 years T: 12
OM found & BD (by me): 9/19/18 IHS begins W informs me she's moving out: 11/28/18 W files: 12/21/18 D Final: 2/25/19