Unsure what's next, what to do.....Part II

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Answered in the quote:

I like this statement:

"I decided I will be spending thanksgiving with my parents."

That does not mean you have to use it. You should understand why it is an option.

Is your wife committed to the marriage? Not at this time
Is your wife in love with you? No clue, but judging my her actions, No.
Has your wife shown remorse? Some. Not as much as I would like.
Does my wife REALLY want me there? Hard to say or read what she 'wants'.


List out many more questions like this.
Lots of YES's = YES go.
Lot's of NO's = Stop pursing and don't go.


Really think about each of your choices and all the REAL consequences. Make a choice and live with the consequences.

Is it better for you to not go and have her miss you? I'm not sure she would miss me since she will be around her family whom she doesn't see very often
Or is it better to go show all your positive changes? Probably wouldn't hurt
Or go and have a chance to do a 5% that kills you? I'm pretty adamant and confident that I won't slip up if I go.