There is a book called tough love- not sure of the author-
I don't know how it works with MLC and each situation is a little different never read it or followed the techniques and my ways did not help my situation
Best to test any new strategies to see if they seem to help or hurt the situation and if it is true MLC, sometimes nothing really helps
remember MLC is caused by unresolved childhood issues in many instances-
So the only true healing can come from the MLCer if they are willing to seek help and dig deep for their healing Sadly, Many will prefer to go into replay and have fun, use substances or find a way to numb from it
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