You don´t have to show her you are moving on H...you must move on now. Reinforce the GAL, get time for yourself. Don´t stay waiting for her and her schedule. She must face some family obligations too and you use that time to GAL, I mean GAL, not going to gym, GAL, catching butterflies, enlisting into volunteer firefighters or singing in a chorus. Get some social GAL by yourself, not a kids related activity.
Treat her like a good neighbour, smile but avoid her the more you can. No R talks, she is really WW. She is not your W now, she is not your friend, sorry man. She is the mother of your kids now. Hope she is able to acomplish the role.
Be there for your kids, but stand for yourself. You have the tools to get respect back, but it´s up to you. You are in control of your life. Get the strength and start moving forward.
I was a WW husband sometime ago. Of course I´m not proud of my behavior but let me say you that I recovered respect back for my wife when I saw her standing for herself, moving on and being the lighthouse for my family.
