Ha ha ha...no. I think maybe because I was so confused by this seemingly out of the blue desire of his, and because I had such an over dramatic reaction to it : o)
It's probably one of the things he was complaining about when he said I was 'controlling'.
Now? If I was in the same situation? With what I know now? I'd hopefully be like, yeah, whatever, you go right ahead and do that. And keep right out of it.