Ha ha ha...no. I think maybe because I was so confused by this seemingly out of the blue desire of his, and because I had such an over dramatic reaction to it : o)

It's probably one of the things he was complaining about when he said I was 'controlling'.

Now? If I was in the same situation? With what I know now? I'd hopefully be like, yeah, whatever, you go right ahead and do that. And keep right out of it.


Me: 48, XH: 42
T: 18 years, M: 15 years

EA/PA 1: 6/2012
EA/PA 2: from autumn 2012-present

BD: 5/2013
ILYBNILWY BD & left: 10/2015

OW conceived: 8/2016
Born: 4/2017

H filed: 7/2017
D final: 28/12/2017