What a strange time. Today I had a good talk with the kids. Not quite what you advised, but I told them, that I could see how hard it must be for them to have the moving date coming closer and that I was feeling the same, that we all would be better, once we had a new routine.
I also had an interesting talk with H, where we agreed, that it would probably be best for everyone, if he moved out quickly. Maybe I was a little to open there. He then asked if it would be ok with me if he would still stop by in the evenings after his moving out. I was kind of confused and asked in return if then I should also come to his place, when he had the boys. He said he did not mind. I said, I was not even sure if I wanted to go to his place and that I had to think about that and jokingly said, this whole situation would be new to me. I also told him I did not want to keep him from being with the kids, but it would be strange if he stopped by every day, then he would not need to move out. He agreed and we kind of left the opportunity of flexibility. I then asked if he wanted to give up his keys and he said no he had not planned that, so I asked, if he then also wanted to give me his keys and he said he could do that, since he would have two sets. He said, that he would text before he would come and I joked, that yes he would have to ask before he came over, since I did not want him to find me in bed with someone else in the future. To which he responded laughing, then he would join. Very strange conversation, but kind of relaxed considering the topic. It is still so sad. We seem to be getting along so well.
