Grace, you do the right thing. A few weeks ago I too went to a free consultation with a family lawyer. I had had a rough few weeks. The consultation was kind of strange, officially talking to someone over D, which is the last thing I want. But I felt better afterwards. I am now absolutely certain, that I am not going to be the one who files. But if H does, I know my rights. One thing less to worry about. But let’s still keep the fingers crossed, that it won’t come to that.