DnJ always have some great advice. Most of us do for others Sometimes I have to take my own advice.
I remember one time my d10 was breaking everything, I was downstairs unpacking, all I hear is things being thrown D10 kept saying I hate her that's when I knew my kids Needed therapy they been going for over 8 months and one Thing we all where taught to not do rational things when angry
I took that advice because I know I would be in jail now. Now I myself calm down and wait next day before I do anything I can regret.
It's hard. We are so angry at MLC. It's hard not to react.
Now that's a interesting question DnJ ask about believing in MlC My belief are kike you, it's a selfish thing to do or poor excuse.
But unfortunately it's being written more and study's are now Actually saying childhood trauma can cause lots of Damage as an adult.
My belief is some of US are mentally stronger we can overcome Anything. Unfortunately I thought W being an ex Marine and the way W spoke I thought W is mentally strong. I fooled myself And have also surprised myself because I would have thought I would have by now been lock up or been mental hospital for a mental breakdown But I am stronger then ever emotionally.
Is interesting that's one thing I would say.
I have gotten more knowledge now than ever in childhood trauma how It good simply hurt us as adults now I am here trying to protect 3 kids From having a f up life when they become mens or women.
You sound like a strong guy I know you will over this. Remember
One day at a time
At BD Lesbian marriage Me39,W36 S9,D9,S8 adopted all three Together almost 10yrs Bomb Drop - April 2017 W movedout - May,2017 OW June,2017 Currently 2018 Me40, W38 S10,D10,S9