Thanks Nef! My dad is doing real well... actually he will be coming home on Monday. And there was a time where he was feeding the monster next to him ice and asking why I kept turning into towels. I have read some stories on here relating to alcoholics. I used to really have no sympathy for my dad. I used to think that calling it a disease was just an excuse... just stop drinking and being selfish. But not anymore. Total change of view point. I don't know how anyone can quit after what I witnessed for the past three months,

Anyway, obviously that was taking up all my thought recently. But now it's time to get back to me and make 2019 great. This has put selling both his house and my house at the top of the priority list. I just can't get into the dating game. I deleted all the apps from my phone. I chatted with a few women but figured if I am not going to do anything then it is pointless to go on these things. I was spending too much time on my phone anyway. BUT it is time to figure out what to try and do there. I got a life to live and I got a lot to offer! I mean come on well educated, great, decently paying job, no debt, pretty damn good shape....let's go! Only negative is the lack of hair :-)... (I joke, I joke... trust me... I am fully aware of my flaws!) I just have to make the effort and not be so picky I guess.

Anyway, that's that. Have a few trips coming up to the west coast to end the year, one to run a marathon. So I'll go get it!