And to be clear, he is talking about with her, not here.
Yes with her. Thanks for clarifying. Steve is wise. listen to every word this man speaks. Always ask yourself, what would Steve recommend.
Originally Posted by Steve
That 5% will kill you
Originally Posted by LH19
Boy you are still learning the hard way.
Do you know the hot stove story? Please don't touch the stove, it is hot, you will get burned if you touch it.
Dude, I know this is hard. It is one of the hardest things to go through. This is one big test. Women test men. Pass this test.
Originally Posted by Wanted1
When she gets home on Friday after her first day, do I ask her how it went, etc.? It seems to me that I should but wanted to run it by everyone.
NO. Let her come to you.
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so I approached W last week about what her/our plans were going to be. She told me her brother is planning on being back to her parent's house for Thanksgiving, so she would like to go out there (4 hour drive from where we live). I sort of implied that it was up to her whether or not I would attend as well or not. I don't remember her exact response but it was somewhat apparent that she wanted me to come with. So, in essence, I was invited to share in the holiday with her, her family and our kids.
Why did I highlight the above words?
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
