For the past 3 months since she broke the news, I have been heading to the gym 4 - 5 times a week and it has been my main GAL activity. I have gained 8-10 kg's of body mass, and due to low body fat, my workouts are really showing on my body which is a huge confidence boost. I have been engaging in small talk with some really attractive ladies at the gym, whom I would have never dared engaging just 4 months ago due to low self esteem.
This is good stuff. You should be exercising your mind, body and soul everyday.
Originally Posted by Hurt213
Today she asked me to to groceries for her, and yesterday and all the days before, I would had just said "yes of course", however today I told her "I have plans with the kids, and you need to do them yourself", she then sent 3 texts and I just replied once with a "thank you" because she said, "I hope you have a good time, doing whatever you are going to do".
Great! "I have plans with kids" is a better answer.
I just want you to know that know matter what you think there is not anything you can do to change this around RIGHT NOW. You can really only make things worse. Take your W out of the equation. All you focus is on you and the kids.
Stay strong and take it one day at a time. I promise you that you will survive this and thrive if you do the work.
