AnotherStander, thanks. I hadn't considered that pov. I suppose she does and would see me in that light.

So with that in mind, since there seems to be little activity on her part to be moving out and none from her brother, whose activities are... I don't know what they are. helpful or detrimental... got to think on that some more.

So since she has a lot of stuff and very little is out would a continued silence be tacit acceptance of the situation? Enabling cake eating?

Because I would like to not get comments like I got about the cell phone bill. Which was we won't have to talk about that soon. Maybe because she thinks the Dec court date will be the end of it. Going to check with my L to clarify what happens or is expected then.


H (me) 56 ; W 54 ; M 32 ; D 32 ; D 30 ; S 21 ; Grandkids: 12, 11, 10, 8, 1