I am considering contacting 2 or 3 attorneys to interview them for a good fit if/when I might need them down the road. I would like someone in place if something happens (papers served, for example). I am developing a list of questions, and would welcome the questions that are 'must ask' as well as things you wish you had addressed in a D and didn't. We have no minor children, but I know I will need clauses to ensure any expenses while they are in college are split at least 50-50%. I also plan to show up with printouts of income, assets, etc, which I have been collecting recently.
I'm still in knots over the discovery that H talked almost an hour with an attorney. The text messages have been silent for a few days, and I will not initiate.