Hero, that's great news! But do keep your guard up and don't go rushing back into the R. Take it slow, make sure she does the work she needs to do. Is she still seeing her IC? That needs to continue. MC needs to continue as well. Ease up on the "time and space" side of DB'ing and make yourself more available to her. But don't overdo it with aggressive pursuit. Remember the goal isn't to put things "back to normal" because that didn't work. Both of you need to plan on a lot of hard work. Check into Retrouvaille in your area, it is a fantastic program for establishing healthy communication habits moving forward. Good luck and keep posting!