Originally Posted by kiwi
Another thought:Next Saturday Hwill get keys to his app and will set up furniture with S15 there. I am sure he will also show app to S12. The kids despite their dislike of separation are a little excited about the new place, kind of like a vacation home? I feel like I don’t even want to come near it. Did you guys visit their places? Do I say no, if he ever asks me to see it? Maybe I should go there to finally accept reality


Yes I went. I think it's a good idea to go because it helps you to understand it's just a dwelling- 4 walls a roof and a floor. It's not a home.

It's weird, my ex has had her house for 3 or 4 years now and when I go over there it still just does not feel to me like she belongs there or like it's her "home". Hard to explain.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57