Whirlwind of Hurt 4

[Twofeet]

Then I say the day you move out you are vacating the home and it becomes My home, therefore I will not be leaving My home while movers show up to move your things from My home. She gets really pissed and hangs up on me. "

TF, I think we discussed minimizing the fireworks before she moved out. These comments sound controlling. If you guys already came to am agreement on who is getting what why don't you just go to your moms. Do you really want to be there when she moves out? If you can't trust her to do the right thing what exactly are you trying to save?

Look man I am totally on your side but sometimes you come off very business like and at times controlling. Were you playful in your marriage or was it always business?

I am not sure is you ever divulged but is the OM married? Does he have children?

LH,

The problem is that I don't trust her anymore. I trust her about as far as I can throw her. I know I don't want to create fireworks, but time and time again post-BD all she has been doing is lieing and taking whenever she can. She pouts then I soften up then she takes again. When she isn't doing that she is lieing, not only to me but the kids as well. I just don't want to come home to an empty house and have to figure out how to get my household items back. I can go while the movers are there, but that would be a big leap of faith on my part. What do you suggest?

I was playful in the marriage and business like with the finances. I am still trying to be playful post-BD, it's just a little harder.

Most I got about OM when I confronted W about the EA was its complicated, I don't know for sure if he is divorced or just separated. Om has a son who I think is a preteen or young teen and a teenage daughter. Not that it matters but OM doesnt have much in the looks department and looks like he needs some exercise.

If I am doing wrong please shut me down. If I am on the wrong path please point me in the right direction.