Then I say the day you move out you are vacating the home and it becomes My home, therefore I will not be leaving My home while movers show up to move your things from My home. She gets really pissed and hangs up on me. "
TF, I think we discussed minimizing the fireworks before she moved out. These comments sound controlling. If you guys already came to am agreement on who is getting what why don't you just go to your moms. Do you really want to be there when she moves out? If you can't trust her to do the right thing what exactly are you trying to save?
Look man I am totally on your side but sometimes you come off very business like and at times controlling. Were you playful in your marriage or was it always business?
I am not sure is you ever divulged but is the OM married? Does he have children?