Harvey - I don't think your thread is boring at all. I read it with interest and marvel at the leaps and bounds you are making. You are doing remarkably well.
Five days of cooking home cooked meals. I don't even manage that and I love to cook
Originally Posted by harvey
m At this point I don't care all that much if I become attractive to my W again. I've become attractive to myself--as weird as that sounds. I like where I am at.
Not weird at all. I look in the mirror sometimes and feel exactly the same way. Though, I still make the extra effort when I know he will see me which is pretty much every day. I guess I still have some ways before I am properly detached.
Originally Posted by harvey
W texts and calls me all of the time, but that's mostly to do with the divorce filing and logistics in seeing the girls. I don't start text threads. I never call. If she asks a question, I respond, but I usually make her wait. I'm still doing well.
You should treat her like anyone else. Fully detached means not playing games. But, again, you are closer to being detached that me
In anywise, I think you are doing exceptionally well.
