I have been praying for guidance and here is where I have heard

1. Fear not
2. Seek peace
3. Forgive without conditions
4. Keep no record of wrongs
5. Offer love
6. Judge not
7. Do not worry
8. Follow your conscience
9. Pray for what you desire
10. Believe it will be given

All of the above is easier said then done

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving