Not struggling quite as much

[Jim1234]

Twofeet and Mowgli, I hear you and this is why I'm so conflicted. There is no OM. I'm 100% sure of this. She's on vacation with her sister. When I had surgery recently, she would have helped in any way I needed, and in fact was a little upset that I didn't ask her. We are very amicable coparents, and she has no family in the U.S. This is not for just a regular checkup, but to treat an abscess, so while not an emergency, it is very time sensitive. Because of your inputs, whichever way I go, though, I will not mention it's a job for a husband or boyfriend. I think I will do it, and say 'In future, please make your own appointments."