Don't get angry about picking up the slack with the kids. You may be totally on your own with them one day, and you'd have to find a way to care for them? Would you be angry then? If not, then you're just letting your wife have emotional control over you....
Why are you "birdnesting" with a cheater? Why not stay at your house? If she wants out, she can get out and she knows that. Don't give in to her madness, validate her feelings, don't tolerate bad behavior. You don't have to engage and fight, but you should let anyone treat you poorly.
What is "RC"?
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
