Whirlwind of Hurt 4

[Twofeet]

Thanks neffer, I am working an being the rock. I will be the best parent I can be. Going to start putting more focus on my kids in my IC sessions. I still have issues to resolve, but I need to spend time getting advice for better parenting in a sitch like this.
I also forgot to mention that both D5 and D8 wanted to sleep in bed with me last night so I let them. D8 woke up in the middle of the night because she wet the bed. She hasn't had an accident like this in 3 or 4 years. I told W this morning and she said its a one time occurrence don't worry about it, unless you are hoping its a regular thing. (WTF?) No, I said why would I want that. I said I just want to make you aware of it.
My IC warned me about bed wetting, hopefully its just a one off thing and it doesn't happen again. Its sh!t like this that makes it hard for me to get out of the mindset of, "if W doesn't want to be apart of this family than she is against this family." Just need to take that negative focus off of W and turn it into a positive focus on the kids.