Trust the process. The steps you are taking are good. They will feel counter-intuitive for a while. It will feel like you are pushing her further away, but the truth is that she is already gone. The only way she will ever choose to come back (and it is her choice) is if she doesn't feel any pressure from you. You are still very early in the process, and as they say this is a marathon not a sprint. If you come in expecting quick results you will not get far. Right now you need to focus on healing yourself and turning yourself into AMOAFWL.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
