So oh great DB community, what to do about cake walking? She is in another bedroom. Hasn't been really packing. Removed very little as far as I can tell. Yes I had to snoop in her room to know that. No I didn't do anything more than look from the doorway. Yes, I know, still bad Turbine.

Would the request to move out be a 180 for me since I generally don't push? Or more me being a "bully" and confirming in her mind the worst. Wait... why should I care. W is the one wanting the D. She did the BD. She isn't willing to try anymore. So what is the worst that can happen? She moves out and the D goes through. I am getting resigned to that undesired outcome.

Tell me I'm wrong... or right.


H (me) 56 ; W 54 ; M 32 ; D 32 ; D 30 ; S 21 ; Grandkids: 12, 11, 10, 8, 1