I am typing with my phone so I will not be able to get into all of the details, but there has been some major events in the last weeks. Long story short, we are working on starting a new R. Between my DBing activities and my work on recovering from NBS, I have begun making changes in my life that she is very interested in. We have had recent had three “marathon” discussions where we were finally honest with each other and we both validated each other with out defending our past transgressions. I know it is only a beginning, but the path towards reconciliation is at our feet.
I am now focused on making sure I know exactly what I want and that I correctly setup the necessary boundaries that will allow us to start the process of rebuilding trust. I am also focused on controlling expectations.
I would appreciate any advice on piecing or boundaries that the board has to offer.
