So I came home yesterday, and she didn't mention anything regarding the fact that I "moved her" out of the bath/bedroom. She served me dinner in fact, and told me she made my lunch for the following day. I said "thank you", and that was it from me. I then tugged in my kids and headed out for the gym and followed that up with a coffee afterwards with a friend.
When I came home around 20.00 p.m. she was on the phone with a colleague, who has been her support pillow through all of this according to her (surprise, she is also a newly divorcee).. She was acting and sounding all happy, and the spoke for 30 minutes, while I sat down and got a bite and got some late work done - then I proceeded to go to bed without telling her, i just left the room.
She is acting like nothing has happened - I am really putting up a "facade" showing her, that I will take no more, and I am not interested in small talk. She keeps asking questions though, but she really seems or acts to be not bothered at all by the fact that I "switched gears". This morning we exchanged what I think must've been no more than two words, and off she went. I know I shouldn't think about her feelings and doings, but im working on it - it is tough to just kill the switch. I will continue to pay attention to me and the kids, and only engage in conversations with her, when it is regarding financial things or related to the kids - is this the right way to go about it ?
Thanks
BD: Wife says "its over" 11th august 2018. EA: June 2018 PA: August 2018 - ongoing Status: Taking turns 7 days a week to be in the house w. kids WW: no regrets, seems happy with leaving.
