Thanks for your perspective Rose. I guess I am wondering if you are suggesting I never inquire about our relationship again unless she brings it up first. I am also planning to continue to not initiate contacting her unless I have to which is rare and usually only through texts. The question I guess I still have is if there was a chance she might reconsider, would her feelings be dampened by me being distant, or we she likely reach out anyway if she had a change of heart?