Wow, that's good to hear it's finally resolved but definitely [censored] that it contributed to your sitch like it did.
Thanks for the encouragement, I'll certainly keep trying!
Today I had a generally good day of feeling a lot more stable, especially relative to the weekend. Well, aside from the HOA dues coming in the mail! This is one of those things I feel like I should ask my H to pay half of, since he's technically still on the title and won't do anything to move things forward otherwise. If he's still entitled to the house, he should still be responsible for the cost of where it sits! But I mean, like that's gonna make him want to come back.
H:39 W:30 M:4 T:9
05/2018: H says "ILYBNILWY", BD 07/2018: Discovered A, confronted 09/2018: PA + other details emerge; H moved out 12/2018: I filed 03/2019: Divorce finalized