You are the only one that can save this R. If it is important to you, then you need to give H everything he is asking for.
He says he is bored. This means his life is predictable. Be unpredictable. He believes he has control over this. Take away his power. Take away his control.
* He says he is unhappy and feels like he is missing out on something Make him feel like he is missing out on something WITH YOU.
* He says he is confused and lost Hopefully time away from you will clarify what is really important.
* He says he doesn't know what will make him happy but life is short so he has to find what will make him happy Set him free. Wish him well. You already know that he needs to find his inner happiness. You are his role model. Show him how to be happy without him. Show him you are enlightened and you will be happy no matter what.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712