Why give him the power. If he has a choice to cake eat, what is he going to pick?
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He’s given reasons why he can’t leave right now. Finances, work that needs to be done in the house (we bought a fixer and he’s doing most of the work himself.) So maybe he’s making excuses, who knows.
No one knows. Are these good reasons to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you?
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So right now I’m trying to see how serious he really is.
Use my quote above and you will find out. Watch his reaction very closely. Listen to him.
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Only time will tell,
Why wait? Do you want him to miss you? Or be around for him to continue blaming you for his unhappiness?
Ha can blame me for whatever he likes. I know I’m not why he’s unhappy. So I’m not internalizing that.
I’m hearing what you’re saying and you make valid points. However, for now I’m going to continue with what I’m doing. That may change but we’ve only been at this for 3 weeks. So I’m going to continue with my plan. My plan seems to be working so we will see how it goes!
Also there was a question upthread on if I’ve read DB, not yet but I’m planning to buy the book ASAP.
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
