[quote=TJT][quote=EZdozit]TJT,


EZ, what was your recent "pivot" moment?

TJT - I had a bogus legal situation that had been hanging over my head for 3 years thrown out and dismissed. In large part...the primary catalyst which led my w to become WAS. Since she found out...a marked difference has occurred in her behavior...but so much damage has been done....it has become something of an internal battle. My walls remain firmly up....but may take a peak over the top as things progress.

I get your internal struggle...I feel like you will truly know when you need to. At the very least, continue to use the time afforded you to be AWOAFWL!


Me - 38 W-37
S6
M 10 years T 13yrs
BD 3/18
W moves out 4/18
W files 7/18

Never waste a good crisis