You are way ahead of your H. This is good.
Have you read DR?

I believe "All is fair in love and war". One of your tactics is seduction. You want him to pursue you.

How about giving him what he asked for:
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* He said he is tired of the same old same old. He wants something different.
* He said he is bored and has the sudden urge to change his routine.

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* He says he is unhappy and feels like he is missing out on something
* He has blamed me for why he is unhappy with the marriage.


W:"H, I have been thinking about what you have said and I think it would be best if you moved out as soon as possible."

I really like this statement:
"I agree. This is not working for me either."

Do you understand why I am putting these out as options for you to consider?

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712