Wow Living I am very impressed with you. Most newbies confidence is shot and don't have a clue or a plan and usually make matters worse.

Let's talk about:

Set your boundaries.
Are you familiar with boundaries? They are not ultimatums. Please come here and run it by the board before you set any.

Enforce your boundaries.
These can be tough if you are not willing to D.

List out your non-negotiables. Do you know what they are?