FTR, I am against dating until your D is finalized. Others have taken this course (dating in their sitches) with varying levels of failure/success. One poster that was pretty sure his D was going towards finalizing started dating "a wonderful woman". Yet all of his posts were focused on the STBXW and his struggles still trying to detach. That did this "wonderful woman" no favors.
Think of the person you might be dating and their feelings. Also, I am against it because so many LBSs need to learn to how to be alone.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018