I think you are doing everything right Living. He is still attracted to you, no doubt, and equates you having sex with him as proof that you are still his and I suspect if you gave in, he would take adavantage but then just go back to his old ways. He has to show remorse AND a willingness to address the issues that got you here in the first place. Just keep doing what you are doing. My H, sadly, is far past where your H is. He wants nothing to do with me physically and hugged me the other day like he would hug a distant relative he didn稚 really know but felt obligated to hug anyway. Yuck. That will not be happening again. I don稚 care how sad he looks. Anyway...I am in awe of how strongly you have set your boundaries and how you are getting out there. Treating yourself to a dinner and a move is something I have never done. I think that shows incredible inner strength and self-love. Good for you. You are an inspiration. I will aspire to get there myself. (((HUGS)))
