Understand all your legal rights. Understand the tax consequence to the value of things.


Agree to mediation. (I would do it Pro Se)

You can mediate over multiple sessions. You can defer the mediation.

PLEASE USE THESE WORDS:

"I need time to process what you have said"
"I need time to review what you are proposing"
"I am still working on that"
"I need time to bla bla bla"

This should have been your answer:
"I am busy tonight , so meeting tonight does not work for me. I will review my schedule and let you know a good time."

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712