I can see that asking H about whether he will extend the separation could be seen by him as pressure and pursuit. The purpose of the 2 months was supposed to clarify whether we (H) wanted to work on the marriage or throw in the towel. I could go on like this for several more months, I think, because, I'm satisfied with my GAL activities and the kids will be home for December into January, which will be awesome. But at some point we will have to have a R talk, and if he wants to stay separated without a D for now, shouldn't there be a reason for it? Shouldn't I be privy to that reason? Maybe he doesn't even know himself.
