You have a WH. He wants his cake and eat it too. The best thing you can do is take his cake away from him, like you did with the first affair. "You can't have me AND her."
Look she lives in Hawaii. He knows it is a pipe-dream, but it will linger on as an EA only as long as you let it.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
