I also went to dinner by myself, which I never do. She asked how it was and I said it was nice to have some peace. She said it's nice.......occasionally but nothing more than once per week or so. Prior in our divorce she would go out by herself daily.
She is re-inspired to work, but putting heavy stipulations on it. No weekends, nights or travel. Prior in the divorce she wanted to do whatever she could to get out. She may just go part time to see how it goes. I encouraged her and said to let me know if she needs anything.
No daggers thrown in 4 days or so....this is a record. I'm guessing so far, so good.
We are going to the gym, lunch, then golfing today.
I am remembering the man she fell in love with. Charming, witty, funny and romantic. I would send her love notes, poems and treat her like a queen. Lots of that fell off during the marriage. I have to be that guy again. I remember that was one of the happiest times of my life and I felt whole inside.
