So last night we had wine out on the porch. I went against the playbook and talked about myself. Eating right, working out, etc... she complimented me and said she's proud I have stayed the course and am very attractive. Then we talked about the money pit of a house we live in and I said "I'm done with it. I'm ready to startover. I'm going to build a cabin in the woods, live alone and enjoy life". She said "whoa, whoa, whoa, remember nothing has changed. Dont make a rash decision"
Nothing has changed = convo we had a month ago. we want marriage to work and are taking time to figure it out.
Not going to drop that card often but it seemed to work.
