She then wrote that she in fact did not have any contact with him since the middle of last week, and therefore she hadn't been lying to me about it yesterday. She told me that she didn't know where she stood with OM at this point in time, whether she wanted to be with him or not.
When I read comments like the one above I get very angry. You did the right thing and unless she is completely oblivious she will no why. I think you should have taken it further and moved it into the garage and asked her when she will be moving out.
Originally Posted by Hurt213
What im saying is basically, that I will threat her with respect, smile and let her talk if she wants - if not, then I will just do me and my kids thing, and slowly but steady go to a better place. I won't be the one engaging in anymore conversations about us, nor will I initiate conversations, but of course I will answer content and happy if the questions are valid. I will not interfere with her life, and I will speak up if she decides to cross my boundaries.
What do you mean treat her with respect? What would be a valid question? What are your boundaries?