13 years and two small children

[Hurt213]

Journaling:

So she wrote me a text while I was in my car: She said that she had realized that OMs name was on her phone and I must've seen it as it said "xxxx is typing..." in a snapchat window...

She then wrote that she in fact did not have any contact with him since the middle of last week, and therefore she hadn't been lying to me about it yesterday. She told me that she didn't know where she stood with OM at this point in time, wether she wanted to be with him or not.

I did not respond to the text but simply deleted it.

I was fed up with the lying, so as you know from my thread, i kicked her out of the MBR last week. Yesterday we had a the broker coming by, so we had the mattress she is sleeping on in sons bedroom back in MBR so it looked nice. I told her yesterday that she could just sleep in the MBR, and I would take the couch (yea full retard move by me - weak and won't happen again). She left early this morning, so I pulled the mattress back into sons bedroom.

I then proceeded to remove all the things from her closets (clothes, underwear, jackets, shirts, the whole lot), i boxed it, and put it into sons room (he is 1 years old so it won't affect him). So now the only thing in MBR are my things.

I removed her perfumes, make up and everything that is hers from the master bathroom (as she had been putting some stuff back), and moved them back into the guest bathroom, now there are only my things in that wing.

She will be home today before me. I don't know if I reacted out of way, but as I see it. She is exploring (cake eating) and I am fed up with that behavior. She either chooses to be with us, or we do like this, and stop playing family.

I will be content, smiling and generally look happy around her - but I will tell her, that she can't have both things at once, and that is why I removed her things - bad idea? good idea?

Would appreciate some insight before I need to talk to her later .