DejaVu, “He doesn’t want to face it so the easy way out is to just D and take all of his problems to his next relationship”.
Everyone on here really needs to grasp this concept. All of us have made a lot of mistakes in our marriages that lead us here. The big difference is through all this pain and suffering we are learning, we are becoming better people and we will all one day have the amazing relationship we deserve. If our WAS decided to join us, they will be better for it. If they decide to walk the real winners are us as individuals and some lucky person down the road in life. Keep your head up high, this is all a life lesson that is going to have nothing but a positive impact on your life down the road.