You may have to try different angles to see if anything seems to help
If anything brings her closer or what seems to help and notice what does not help
Sometimes nothing works-and that is helpful to know-
Golf is good and like you said, you can find more activities you can go to range and even get golf games with others when your able
Couples dancing is also another activity if she Is open
I know it is scary to let go and find yourself but yes as you said you have no choice and any clingy behavior may seem negative to her and push her away
hang in
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